Safety & Community Guidelines

Keep yourself safe, be kind to others, and help us keep this space genuinely pleasant.

Our Promise

Safety Is Part of Good Dating

Pure Heart Match takes safety seriously because respect does. We build our community around honesty and attentiveness — and we encourage every member to stay alert, trust their instincts, and look out for one another.

Online dating should feel comfortable and candid, but it still deserves care. The guidelines below are meant to help you protect yourself and to make this a respectful place for every adult.

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Staying Safe

Advice for Your Own Protection

A few habits make a real difference. None of this is complicated — it is just being thoughtful.

Guard Your Personal Details

Keep your full name, address, workplace, and payment information private until you genuinely know and trust someone.

Move at Your Own Speed

Do not feel pressured to share, meet, or agree to anything before you are comfortable. A genuine person will respect your pace.

Meet in Public

For your first meetings, choose a public place with other people around, and let a friend or family member know where you are going.

Watch for Common Warning Signs

Requests for money, urgent financial stories, pressure to move off the platform immediately, and inconsistent details are all red flags.

Verify What You Can

Conversations that feel too fast or too perfect deserve extra caution. Trust your instincts over charm.

Report Concerning Behaviour

If someone makes you uncomfortable, breaks community guidelines, or behaves in a harmful way, let us know at the contact address below.

Community Standards

How We Treat Each Other Here

Mutual respect is the foundation of every match that matters.

Be Honest

Represent yourself truthfully. Do not mislead people about your identity, your circumstances, or your intentions.

Never Harass

Unwanted advances, repeated contacting after a rejection, and any form of bullying or intimidation have no place here.

No Exploitation or Transactional Conduct

This is not a venue for adult-entertainment arrangements, exploitation, or coercive conduct of any kind.

Adults Only

Pure Heart Match is strictly for adults aged 18 and older. Minors are never welcome on this service.

Report, Don't Reproduce

If you see content that breaks these guidelines, report it rather than sharing or retaliating.

Make Space for Others

Remember there is a real person behind every profile — with feelings, history, and the right to be treated well.

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Getting Help

We Take Reports Seriously

If you experience harassment, fraud, impersonation, or anything that makes you feel unsafe, please contact us. Reports are reviewed with care and discretion.

For true, urgent emergencies — including immediate physical danger — please contact your local emergency services as a first step.

Contact Us